Communication: Putting Down the Armor
"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one... Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe... It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable..." C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
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"She’s been everybody else’s girl, maybe one day she’ll be her own." Tori Amos, "Girl"
Sarah curls up in the chair, sunlight glinting off the top of her bent head. She can’t look at me.
"Did you want to do it?" I ask.
"No."
"Then why did you?"
"I thought I had to. We had already started, and I knew that’s what he expected. I didn’t want him to be mad."
About Lynn
I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with a Master of Science in Pastoral Counseling from Loyola University in Maryland. I have been in private practice for over twenty years and have experience working with adults and adolescents, addressing a variety of issues: anxiety, depression, relationship problems, past or current trauma, eating disorders, self-mutilation, bereavement, parenting concerns, boundaries, and self-care.